My Dad

Now that I'm going to be a father, I really wonder what my dad went through when he first became a dad.

Personally, I think that I am lucky. Many of my closest friends have children. And I have always looked forward to the day I would become a dad.

Probably one thing that will help me the most is that I taught Sunday school for children for many years.

The most important thing I learned from that experience was that children are individuals who have their own opinions.

Something that I sincerely desire regarding our child is that I am able to have a close relationship. I am eager to listen to my child and give advice if necessary.

My father was a very quite man. Sometimes, I longed to know what he thought of things. Also, I wish he had given me advice.

My dad was not perfect, and I'm sure that I will not be perfect either; however, I would like to give my best to my family.

Of course I want to support my child to become self-sufficiant one day. I hope that my child will be a person who can make good decisions in the future.

As children grow in their decision making abilities, I think they need support. This support is directly related to their growth. In fact, I also look forward to the day I can ask my child or children for advice.

Although my dad has died, I loved him as my only father. When I was 18, I did not love my father. However, today is very different. I believe in forgiveness, and I am studying what it means to be a dad.

I will probably be studying how to be a good husband and dad for the rest of my life. I think that is one key to become a good parent.